The Truth

03/11/2018

Truth. It’s often referred to as being entirely subjective – and when it comes to external truths, that may be the case.

But when it comes to the truth within us, there is always the beating thrum of it that runs through us like electricity.

We know it when we bump up against something that doesn’t feel good for us, but we say yes anyway.

We say yes to a coffee with that old friend of ours who’s so super sweet on the surface but always somehow finds a way to make us feel like sh*t about ourselves. We feel the tightening of our belly and our uncomfortable racing heart when she comes a’calling, and we know it needs to be a firm no thank-you, but something in us overrides that and a ‘SURE!’ drops out instead. Truth dismissed, self-betrayal enacted.

We know it when our partner asks us how we are and a little white lie pops out, “I’m good!”. When on the inside we feel unheard, unseen and unappreciated – that little crunching contraction within our bodies. Eeek. Not truth. LIES.

When we make the decision to once again say no to that program we’ve been busting to dive into for ages, but instead we don’t back our worthiness to receive the wisdom and codes our soul knows we absolutely need. That uncomfortable thud of disappointment begins to pull at our gut. More denial of our truth. More self-betrayal.

We know the feeling of shutting ourselves down when we really really want to say something, communicate something, but just can’t bring ourselves to get our words out there, and that blog post continues to gather virtual dust in the ‘drafts’ folder on our computer. The truth of our expression denied.

Within us, our inner truth is exacting and does not miss a beat when it comes to what it is that is for us, and what is not for us. It’s not even the voice of our intuition – it’s a visceral and felt current of sensation that is ALWAYS there, even if you’re a little numb to its presence after having ignored it for so long. That’s when you especially know your inner self-betrayal game is strong – you’ve become an expert at hiding it. Walking around with a bunch of internal knots – a gigantic stomach full of them. Nothing to see here, folks! I’m FINE! 

Until one day, you see someone else expressing the rawness of their truth. You see her speak, write, hold a boundary that is so strong and sure – that it nudges you with a heat-fired poker stick.

It either triggers you to buggery or you’re left reeling in awe. You feel your inner knots twitch at you, begging to be unravelled, you feel the urgency to release them all and let them fly away into the wind and disappear, leaving you feeling light, calm and breathing easy for the first time in eons.

When you begin to free those knots of truth from within you (by even taking just *one* small but significant step towards choosing your truth) the feelings of inner clarity and alignment will feel like you’ve been freed from prison. Who even knew you were both the captive and the captor in this situation? Your personal sovereignty absolutely did.

When you choose to be accountable to your inner truth, your entire being and energy field begin to vibrate at a higher frequency. You step out of a life of duplicity (that completely screws with your ability to be a magnetic match to your desires) and into one of radical sincerity that sends out a clear signal to the universe as to where you’re at and what you’re available for.

Every step you take to liberating yourself from the tyranny of untruths, will reveal an equivalent level of flow, magic, and the opportunities you think are only available to a ‘chosen few’.

Guess what? You are the chosen few. Say yes to the thrum of your inner truth and you become the woman who stands as the beacon of radiant honesty, shining with the joy of one who has been completely liberated from living a half-life, hiding in the shadows.

Soon enough you’ll be the one who inspires and triggers everyone else into examining their own tummy cluster of knotted truths – serving humanity by just being YOU, in your deepest and fullest truth, every damn day.

And so I ask, how’s your stomach? In knots? Begging to be unravelled? If your truth is banging on the door, desperate to get out because you’re really not fine walking around betraying yourself every day, then I’ve got you.

I’m opening the doors to my transformational private 1:1 mentorship, and I’m looking to work with TWO truth-seekers, who’re ready to express the fullness of their soul to access the richness of their life. Because walking around with a knot of betrayal in your body is not living your highest potential. And I know that’s exactly what you came here to do.

Drop me an email and let’s chat, beauty! xo carly@carlystephan.com

July-August 2018 Eclipse Season – how are you doing?

30/7/2018

We’ve just moseyed our way through two huge eclipses in the last month, And I’d love to know – how are these eclipse energies treating you? Feeling a little tossed about, and discomfort levels ranging from mild to major?

Eclipse seasons and heightened passages of ascension energy are our shakedown to face our inner True North again.

To be shown what in our lives is not in integrity or in alignment with the truth of our soul.

The ways we’ve been hiding from, compromising, or sweeping things under the rug in the hope they’ll disappear, all of it will rise to the front and centre of our lives to be reckoned with.

This quickening energy has a precision and surety that is exacting and uncompromising. To say this eclipse season has knocked the wind out of me is a bit of an understatement. It’s shaken me to my core and broken me open in ways I haven’t experienced in recent times.

I’m leaning into everything I know works to help – time in nature, energy work, yin yoga, little-to-no caffeine, time with kindred souls AND all of the practices, techniques and processes from my program Anchor Your Light.

I’ve been sinking into my inner light grid and bathing in my own luminosity, aligning with my 12-Strand Etheric DNA and divine human template that lands a deep knowing of my multidimensionality within my heart, and managing my energy to keep my energetic field clear and sovereign from others’ (something many empaths struggle with).

And the best news? You can access these and so much more all now too.

The next round of Anchor Your Light begins 8-8-18, on the Lionsgate passage!

Do you want to be held in the lusciousness of your light? Apply to join our light-filled mastermind-style program by clicking through here: ANCHOR YOUR LIGHT.

Who’s Sailing Your Ship?

04/4/2018

It’s worth asking ourselves a few questions of reflection from time to time. First up – just how many ways are you tying yourself to the expectations placed on you by society, your family, your friends, or even the media?

Have you ever examined the things you do, or what you strive for in your life and truly explored whether this is something YOU really want or desire, deep within you?

Like the expectation that you need to be married by aged X, buy a house by age Y, or have kids by age Z? Are you striving to get all of the ducks lined up in a row, just so you can justify your existence here on earth?

We sometimes unwittingly attach ourselves to identities or goals because it’s ‘just something that everyone strives for’.

We tie ourselves to so many different masts, we have no idea who’s actually sailing OUR ship.

When this topic comes up in sessions with my clients, it’s often a shock for them to see how much of their self-view is set-up to be entirely externally-referenced, and based on the judgments and expectations of WHO WE ARE TO OTHERS.

We’re so used to shape-shifting to everyone else’s needs and expectations, that when we begin to explore what it means to live from more of an internal reference point, anchored deeply within ourselves, there’s actually a void there.

A void that as yet has not formed a knowing of what our truly soul-aligned desires are, or what this even feels like!

When we begin to ask questions like; Who am I (really)? And, What Do I Actually Want? We often draw a blank.

We may stumble upon a desire we’ve long held, only to find that upon a deeper exploration, it’s actually what our parents’ desired for us. Or what our Grade 8 teacher thought would be something amazing for us to do.

Doing the work to tune in, can feel a bit daunting at times. But when we do (and asking those questions above are one of the first steps), personal sovereignty is not too far down the track.

Stick with the questions, and bring the energy of curiosity, play, and discovery to what comes through as an answer.

How are you living your life today, beauty? Internally or externally referenced?

If you’d love a bit of hand-holding support to learn more about HOW to tune within yourself and excavate your sovereign desires, there are just 2 Single Session Specials (it’s super rare for me to have these) available at the moment – including resource notes AND 2 weeks of email support! Bargain. 

 

 

What Disenchantment Will Do To You

12/2/2018

Losing your enchantment with life may seem inconsequential at first. And it may even BE inconsequential if it’s just a passing phase, and you have the tools and tricks to winch your way out of it.

The sneaky thing about disenchantment though, is that it’s a screwy little motherf*cker, who creeps into the crevices of your life, and before you know it – has you in its greasy vice-like grip, adding a wash of grey and disdain for everything to your existence. And my GOD is it tough to shake loose.

This past weekend, through a powerful process I was taken through by the amazing Marcela Widrig, I began to see the ways I’d allowed disenchantment to leak into me in the past little while.

It wasn’t until I was physically moving the pattern of ‘I don’t get to do what I want’ through my body (full of resentment, frustration and icky childhood huffiness), that I realised I’d recently been losing my grip on the magical life I’ve been cultivating.

Here are some of the signs and hallmarks that you too may be unsuspectingly squeezed by disenchantment.

Hallmarks:

  • You’ve become increasingly whiny and victim-y:  you’re really externally focused on what it is ‘outside’ of you that has made you feel this way
  • You’re retreating from life, and energetically withdrawing – making yourself small and unnoticeable
  • You’re fearful of staking your claim and taking up space in the world
  • You think you don’t matter
  • You feel like you cannot get what you want
  • Your boundaries are constantly being overstepped – first by you, and then by others. They’re also leaky, murky and permeable
  • You shy away from supportive decisions that you know will help you and your highest potential
  • You’re constantly seeking permission – from your spouse, friends, family. Sorry is a frequently used word in your vocabulary.

If any of these signs are calling you, holler! This is a freaking woeful state to be in, hey?

And it is time to begin making decisions that help you realise YOU ARE HERE in this magical life of yours and YOU MATTER.

Your experience of it ALSO MATTERS. The magic matters.

During this past weekend’s workshop, I danced the pattern of ‘not getting to do what I want’ through my body and cried the tears of frustration at myself for not having remained vigilant to the boundaries I was over-stepping, within myself.

I moved, cried and FELT it all until all I was left with was potent energy searing through my body.

The magic of being present with it, and feeling it all, brought me right back into my body – and SOOOO ready to take up space again.

I am also SO FREAKING glad to have done this during this week because it’s a cosmically powerful week to choose differently, change the story – and make the changes we want to see in our lives become manifest.

It’s the Lunar New Year and Solar Eclipse on Thursday, which will see the close of a super potent eclipse portal – between last month’s Super Blue Blood Red (with a cherry on top) Full Moon Eclipse and the upcoming Solar Eclipse this Thursday.

The cosmos is in full support of us GOING BIG – and make the decisions that are supportive of our wellbeing, vibrancy and juicy presence in the world.

Just start with one decision – if you found a hallmark of disenchantment in the list I wrote above. What ONE THING can you commit to or begin, that’s going to turn that sucker around, and have you feeling the MAGIC again?

Just one thing.

And lovely, if you want to work with a mentor and coach who will lovingly call you on your sh*t and keep you accountable to your enchantment and the searing bright light that you REALLY ARE  –  I have just two spots available in my private 1:1 mentoring program.

It’s a first in, best-dressed scenario.

Book in for a chat here or email me carly@carlystephan.com, and let’s dance this disenchantment right back to where it came from.

A Personal New Year Update

08/1/2018

I closed out the final moments of last year in the crystal clear ocean of The Sandon, swimming, bobbing in, and riding the waves with some of my fave people in the world.

It was sunset on December 31st, 2017, and the golden light surrounding us was INCREDIBLE. It felt like we’d all been swept into some kind of alter-dimensional universe OR a Coca-Cola commercial, I couldn’t quite decide which.

We’d just waded our way back over from an island off the coast, where my ladies threw me a surprise birthday soiree in a sacred garden grove overlooking the aqua-coloured pacific ocean, replete with the most epic grazing platter and french champagne.

Stripping off our finery, we waded out into the water, as the nearly full super moon rose above the ocean.

Our collective joy was palpable, but I can only speak for myself when I say it was the stuff of dreams.

I’d been doing a weensy bit of reflecting that day, as many of us are wont to do on the final day of the calendar year, and/or our birthdays. For me, it’s a double whammy, and I tell ya there were many years where the energy of it all was just too much and I’d be guaranteed to bawl my eyes out at some point on new year’s eve.

I was reflecting on a year which really called me into my highest light and demanded I align publically with the truth of what I’m here to embody and teach, talk frankly about my Starseed experiences, and take on a role in our collective spiritual awakening that I’d never envisaged in my wildest dreams just a few short years ago.

My mission is clear. I want to inspire and guide you to open your energy channels to high-dimensional energy and deeply embody this light within, helping you ascend spiritually and allow your highest desires to manifest with ease.

I want YOU to know beyond a shadow of a doubt that YOU ARE THE LIGHT. And then FEEL this truth in your body radiating from your heart. And I want you to take your gifts and completely light up the world with them.

There are so many exciting things coming this year, and collectively there’s going to be an acceleration of energy again, which is ultimately awesome but temporarily provides some gnarly energetic waves to ride. So one thing I want to do is load you up with as much as I can to help you live the most magical life you can and make the most of these incoming waves of light. Think: videos, audios, PDF resources, more blog posts, speaking on stage, in-person events and workshops, more podcast interviews, group programs and a handful of 1:1 mentoring / coaching spots!

I have a newly gifted process (I cannot take full credit for this at all) and ‘technology’ that I’ve gradually channelled over the last year, from a cosmic collective who refer to themselves as the Arcturian / Sirian Alliance Council, which I’m so excited to see come to fruition (my Anchor Your Light babes are going to experience it first).

Your personal light grid activation helps increase your inner light quotient, and juices up all of your energy centres, amplifies your energetic radiance, increases your personal sovereignty (you connect to the galactic central sun, your original source) and allows you to experience your multi-dimensional nature. It does amazing things for your manifesting capacity and helps you download new templates to rewrite patterns that are no longer serving you, as well…

We are truly entering a golden age, in a broader galactic sense. The energetic movement of ascension demands that we reconnect to our divinity. And the universe is providing us with SO many resources (people, tools, techniques) to help us each remember and reclaim our divine-human nature, at this point in time. Not next life, this life.

The knowledge that we are source energy incarnated into earthly cosmic bodies is seeking to land deeply into the hearts of many on earth right now.

I really hope you let yourself bathe in the knowing of your own divine nature, beautiful. Or at least, that you’re ready to do so. Because that’s what’s coming at you!

Happy New Year, and huge smooches your way. Thank you SO MUCH for being here.

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